#6 LET'S TALK ABOUT IT: Am I less of a man if I enjoy cuckolding?

The statistics will shock you...

So the very short answer is NO.

The long answer is that you possibly feel this way because of social conditioning, toxic masculinity and this demon called An**ew T*te.

For a very long time and more recently, the idea of an alpha male and derogatory usage of the term ‘cuck’ has skyrocketed across social media. The idea that a man who lets his wife tell him what to do and show sexual preference to other men in her presence is a cuck. But let’s explore the true origin of these terms.

Despite what the French thought in the 1600s and contrary to public opinion, cuckolding has nothing to do with the death of toxic masculinity and it doesn’t make you less of a man to enjoy a kink!

Cuckolding is the sexual act of watching your partner have sex with a third party. This is usually in the heteronormative sense, where a man get sexual satisfaction from watching his wife have sex with another man. Hot wifing is when a man is significantly proud of his wife and parader her around to her other men and encourage people to have sex with her.

Cuck is a person who enjoys watching and a bull is the third party who comes in to indulge in the act.

It is an incredibly valid kink and a a study done by @justinjlehmiller shows that 54% of men enjoy participating in this act!

While it’s spoken on and usually shown in porn as a heteronormative act, it can be enjoyed by anyone regardless of sexual orientation and gender identity.

Enjoying cuckolding also has nothing to do with your masculinity! There is research out there that people in these relationships have stronger intimacy and positive sex lives from being more open about their interests and indulging in them.

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